⚓Learn Anchoring in Negotiation: Who Names the Number First
Settle the 'never go first vs. always anchor' debate using Kahneman and Galinsky's research, then walk into a real deal with a written, defensible opening number — and a plan for the counter.
Phase 1Why the First Number on the Table Drags the Last One With It
Why first offers move final prices, per the research
A random number in the room changes the price you pay
6 minA random number in the room changes the price you pay
First movers capture more value, in study after study
7 minFirst movers capture more value, in study after study
Your counter-offer is built from their anchor, not from scratch
7 minYour counter-offer is built from their anchor, not from scratch
The two situations where going first is the wrong move
6 minThe two situations where going first is the wrong move
Phase 2Writing a Defensible Opening Anchor for a Real Deal
Write and justify an opening anchor for a real deal
Pick one real negotiation, and write its single most important number
5 minPick one real negotiation, and write its single most important number
Three numbers belong on every anchor sheet, not one
7 minThree numbers belong on every anchor sheet, not one
An anchor without a reason is a number; with one, it's a position
7 minAn anchor without a reason is a number; with one, it's a position
Plan your second number before you say your first
8 minPlan your second number before you say your first
Say the anchor out loud to a wall before you say it to a person
8 minSay the anchor out loud to a wall before you say it to a person
Phase 3How Anchoring Plays Against BATNA, ZOPA, and Counter-Anchors
Connect anchoring to BATNA, ZOPA, and counter-anchors
Their anchor came in below your BATNA — what happens next?
7 minTheir anchor came in below your BATNA — what happens next?
You anchored too aggressively and the room went quiet — recover or walk?
7 minYou anchored too aggressively and the room went quiet — recover or walk?
They went first with a low number — your counter has thirty seconds to land
7 minThey went first with a low number — your counter has thirty seconds to land
They keep asking your range — every answer is an anchor
7 minThey keep asking your range — every answer is an anchor
Phase 4Running the Anchor Live and Capturing What Came Back
Deploy your anchor live and capture the counter-offer
Drop your anchor in the real conversation, then write down exactly what came back
25 minDrop your anchor in the real conversation, then write down exactly what came back
Frequently asked questions
- Should you ever name the first number in a negotiation?
- This is covered in the “Learn Anchoring in Negotiation: Who Names the Number First” learning path. Start with daily 5-minute micro-lessons that build from fundamentals to hands-on application.
- What did Galinsky's research show about first offers?
- This is covered in the “Learn Anchoring in Negotiation: Who Names the Number First” learning path. Start with daily 5-minute micro-lessons that build from fundamentals to hands-on application.
- How do you defend a high anchor without sounding ridiculous?
- This is covered in the “Learn Anchoring in Negotiation: Who Names the Number First” learning path. Start with daily 5-minute micro-lessons that build from fundamentals to hands-on application.
- What is a counter-anchor and when should you use one?
- This is covered in the “Learn Anchoring in Negotiation: Who Names the Number First” learning path. Start with daily 5-minute micro-lessons that build from fundamentals to hands-on application.
- Does anchoring still work when the other side knows about it?
- This is covered in the “Learn Anchoring in Negotiation: Who Names the Number First” learning path. Start with daily 5-minute micro-lessons that build from fundamentals to hands-on application.
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